Sunday, January 29, 2012

The Gospel according to Lilith (so far) HAHAHA

gos·pel/ˈgäspəl/

Noun:
  1. The teaching or revelation of Christ.
  2. A thing that is absolutely true.

We'll go on NUMBER 2 for this blog.


I promised a recap sooooooooooooooooooooo this is it so far





smile (make it a habit, yes, im serious)
kinda frightenly simple, so far......

do the thing you love, often (if you dont know what THAT is- figure that out)



work hugs into your day (8-12)

be thankful for your health (very self explanatory)
fuck it
be thankful, PERIOD (start the day with that thought, yes, loser, EVERYDAY)


GET SLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP

LAUGH MORE..... its the best medicine


dance (why WOULDNT you? what is your reasoning?)
Listen to music that makes you HAPPY

KEEP IN MIND

These are in no particular order and are subject to revision but not change. Who am i kidding?
The only thing constant IS CHANGE

there you have it- the gospel SO FAR (by me)
Have a good night, kiddies
keep the faith

XXX


Friday, January 27, 2012

The Year of ME


Sometimes I forget how JOYOUS music makes me. The power of music mixing with the minds recall ability is a  majickal thing.  This is something you already learned through years of heartbreak, happiness and other experiences involving music. (your soundtrack to life)



I was never one to listen to sad tunes, as a matter of fact, i think they should be outlawed.


Why prolong pain? Why DO "sad songs say so much"?

2012 is the year to make YOU better.

The year of YOU. Find your soundtrack and dance your ass off. We both know you feel better when you dance......

SO far 2012 has started with a lot of rules of survival. Looks like we'll need a recap next time. Come back soon- I miss you when youre gone. (So i play a happy tune, seeeeee what i did there?)


Ciao for now!
XXX

Monday, January 23, 2012

Happy New Year













Happy New Year
Smile
Hug
Laugh
Love more
Own this year

XXX
Chat soon

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Slacker post


argh its the 21st/odd day and YES VIRGINIA it was an odd day




so instead of writing, excuse me, blogging......in true gemini style, i am going to post some of these great things that caught my eye today...



Ive had a very odd week, im still processing most of it.....

Ive said it before and ill say it again, 2012 WILL be my bitch.  Theres no ifs, ands or buts about it.
Say that to yourself when you forget to think positive.



ok thats NOT a good example of positive BUT it IS a good example of laughter, that is IF you smiled. 

WRITE THIS DOWN!!! Find something to laugh about EVERYDAY. Every hour if possible. You cant OD on laughter. Laughter is the best medicine after all....


enjoy your weekend, Darlings

XXX


Thursday, January 19, 2012

The Golden Rule


Most people are sleep deprived. If you arent getting 7 hrs a night then YOU ARE TOO. Any parent knows not enough sleep is lethal to a child. Makes them CRAZY.

IT DOESNT CHANGE FOR ADULTS.

NO ONE is equipped to handle stress when they are sleep deprived. The smallest things become ridiculously massive problems.



The GOLDEN RULE for 2012 IS NOT "do unto others", its "GET SOME F*CKING SLEEP!"

That being said, I am exhausted, ill write more tomorrow- I PROMISE..... (oooh my first "to be continued" blog) 

GOOD NIGHT, I suggest YOU get some beauty sleep too. Statistically speaking, looks like you could use it.


zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Love Lilith

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Send me an angel ?

Angels descending, bring from above,
Echoes of mercy, whispers of love.
~Fanny J. Crosby 

Quick Herstory lesson- Fanny was a bit of an angel herself- GOOGLE HER (learn a bunch of new things everyday is a new mantra for 2012 but im getting ahead of myself)

YOULL HAVE TO WAIT FOR THAT ONE.....
Have you ever been visited or guided by an angel?
(sometimes they come to us in dreams, sometimes we meet them face to face)

quick sidenote- if you are starting to think, Dear Jesus, this chica is loco
TURN BACK MEOW- you are correct......



To make a long blog, short ('short attention span theatre' WAS supposed to be my middle name)
I DO realise that people have very different versions of angels.

Has there ever been a time when you have met someone that changes your outlook on the day / maybe even a section of your life immediately?
A complete stranger appears on the scene and your mood is LIGHTENED.

What a fucking treat when THAT happens ..... ok so my day goes like this................


insert nice random thought- self awareness, kids, its gonna be BIG!!!!

hahahahaha new font time it CHANGES by itself MUST BE ThE WOrk OF SAnTA, i mean Satan, faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack

OMG sidetracked.......

So, Im at the bus stop (no, it doesnt matter what bus stop) STOP INTERRUPTING ME (gemini moment- i have those)

Im staring at this older lady that looks like a dear friend of mine that  passed away a few years ago.....
As she starts walking towards me, I think 'Damnit, she thinks Im NUTS for staring, uh oh!' and I mentally prepare my 'you look like my dead friend' speech.  Ta dah! - good , right? Hell no, how to go from looking like a stalker to looking completely fucking certifiable from the get go, right?



With her biggest smile (that was identical to my dear friend that she reminded me of), she asked me what my name was.

"Like that lady on Frasier?", she recalls and announces "that's EASY to remember". Her name, (NO surprise) happened to be very similiar to MY friend's name.

Her red lipstick was also the EXACT colour of my friends, I couldnt help but smile BIG (if you were paying attention, you were SUPPOSED to be smiling at strangers anyway)

hmmmmm that can get weird too, indeed, write your own rules on that one lol 




new font, fuck.....
guuuuuuuh *sings* la la la jingle bell, jingle bell, jingle bell rock in the next room , no Im not nuts, the boys are watching Weeds (GREAT fucking show btw)..........

SHE HUGS ME TIGHT and asks "Pray for me, Lilith, will you?"
I hugged her back as tight as I could and assured her, "Yes, Darlin, I will".
I havent stopped thinking about her all day.

We chatted a bit about how life was always throwing curve balls. The only thing constant is change, I told her.
She liked that.

(She was on the way to the doctor and it was quite serious but none of your business, dont take offense).

Im not a woman of prayer because I ALSO know THAT differs between folk too #nottouchingTHATcanofworms




Rich is the person who has a praying friend. --Janice Hughes (she is also a GREAT lady)

If you took time to read this today, PLEASE take a second and send this sweet lady love OR a meditation, maybe send light, do whatever it is that puts YOU in touch with a healing energy. Prayer can be defined in many ways. Please think of my "angel" sighting today and send it along to her.

Today my lesson was an oldie but a goodie

Be THANKFUL for your health. That's as simple as it fucking gets. Be Thankful. Period. tough one for humans to digest, it seems

rinse, lather, repeat

mars retrograde next week- ask mr google how bad THATS gonna get, quiz to follow

XXX

(omg Shauna, forgive my BLATENT disrespect for punctuation )

half rant mode/half pumped = all good



Sunday, January 15, 2012

I NEED it 12 times a day

The recommended daily requirement for HUGS is:

four per day for survival,
eight per day for maintenance,
and twelve per day for growth.
Virginia Satir said that.

For those of you who don't know who Virginia Satir is, she is well worth asking Mr Google about....
Are YOU getting enough hugs? Unless you live with a huggy family of 4, the answer might be NO.

I don't hug EVERYONE, I must admit. Although, I have started hugging again recently. With some people it is imparative for me to hug them. I couldn't imagine NOT. Hugs are the most fun transfer of energy you can experience.
(hmmmmmm with your clothes on- I should rephrase that but I won't)

TaDah!  Since we are making rules and regs for 2012, LET'S ADD : Hug more. So f*cking simple.

Now, let's get a few things straight. There IS hug etiquette. This is different for everyone so
you have to be on your toes. It's called SELF AWARENESS KIDS (and we MUST talk about THAT in detail SOON).


FOR EXAMPLE: dont hug too long,
F*CK that is just creepy.
Unless you are a very close friend or are hugging as a means of comfort- DO NOT hug too long. Unless it's foreplay but we 're not talking about that right meow. 


That being said, DON'T be a darty hugger.Dart in. Quick hug. Run away.....
Mean it, Damnit!
Show me you want the hug as much as I do.

Call me crazy......

Some people say animal hugs count more than human hugs. Give your pet a squeeze and get back to me.

I'm off to hug my son, he's a teenager and will probably give me a funny look and wonder what's up but hey, im working towards those 12 per day for growth..... sounds kinda easypeasy to me.

Ready for Monday? guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh



XXX

Friday, January 13, 2012

Can I do it til I go blind?

How often to spill my thoughts? Can I blog too much?
Some people say once a week, some say everyday.
I've decided I will blog on odd days and remain odd for the even days.
Kinda makes sense, right? 
All things in moderation.
haha- dear fellow geminis, check google to define "moderation", it is NOT a term we are familiar with.  ;)

What did YOU do for Friday the 13th? I spent the day in bed with my black cat, Marshall Meowthers avoiding ladders and cracks in the pavement.
Am I superstitious? Nah..... just having a lazy day.
Everyday is Hallowe'en in my world, black cats and lucky trinkets surround me.


Hey, if you had to sum up YOUR week in a nutshell....how would it go?

Mine would be .... I want to be a cowboy. I followed my own advice and did something I love, went for a ride at a friend's farm. RULE TWO for 2012- do the thing you love OFTEN.
(not to forget rule one- pass out SMILES to strangers)

Im outta here
XXX

Monday, January 9, 2012

Smile- it makes people wonder what youre up to.


Why would ANYONE call this blog, "gag reflex"?
(ahem, I'm not just anyone)
BUT
I'll let you decide for yourself.

GAG
1. Something forced into or put over the mouth to
prevent speaking or crying out.
2. A censoring of free speech.
3. A device placed in the mouth to keep it open, as in
dentistry.
4. A practical joke/ comic effect or remark.
5. The act or an instance of gagging or choking.
REFLEX
An action that is performed without conscious thought as a response to a stimulus
Please note: different people have different sensitivities to the gag reflex.

That being said, I have not had one until now.

This is to share random thoughts on life and laughing, so, take it with a grain of salt or move on. Mean people suck. Cool opinions and hey, even arguments are always welcome. Keep it civil and no hitting below the belt.

2012 is a year of promised change and rejuvenation and I for one, am ready to make this year my b*tch. If you want to make it yours, let me know. What topics do you feel passionate about to share with the class? Your thoughts are welcome here.

OK, no more introductions- this week's assignment,
should you choose to accept it
deals with smiling.
One of my fave quotes:

"Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all
day. " Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Make it part of your routine to make yourself smile each day. If you have to ask what makes you smile, take time and find that answer first. (mine are usually naughty thoughts). Start smiling BIG and take it on the road. Smile at everyone and notice how they can't help but smile back at you. If they don't, know at least they may smile at the next person. A smile happens to be contagious.

How do YOU feel when people smile at YOU? Does it make your day any lighter?

Try it (or don't) but KNOW THIS.......... if I smile at you and you don't smile back, I'm kicking your butt.

Till we meet again,

(welcome to the fold, visit often, leave your opinions, tell your coolest friends, etc. haha)