Rant from a redhead that cant sleep

One of the toughest lessons we humans must learn
is
the difference between HINDSIGHT and FORETHOUGHT

FORETHOUGHT is imperative
and HINDSIGHT 
is
fucking
useless

hahaha

Im sure we could argue and possibly agree that hindsight can help us piece together a situation
that we did NOT have the FORETHOUGHT to see coming.

However, that still makes hindsight irrelevant to me.

(Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaait, isnt it easier to just work on the forethought?)

Life is like a chess game ,of sorts. Always thinking one step ahead is sometimes best.

Forethought includes the age old question "how will this affect everyone in a day/week/month/years to come"?

Have you seriously ever asked yourself that before making a decision 

be it tiny or HUGE....

How will this affect ME in the future?
How will this affect OTHERS I care about?

Forethought depends on focus. Focus hinges on clarity. Clarity takes self awareness.
Maybe we better start learning to be more SELF AWARE.

Let 2013 be the year you KNOW your purpose in life. Toss aside all the 20/20 hindsight scenarios and start thinking about FORETHOUGHT.
Life happens to you anyway, find a way to enjoy more of the ride.

Today the great Charlie Sheen told Dr Oz ,"People have forgotten how to listen."

I agree, it is something I must always remind myself to do.

 Listening does NOT come naturally to everybody.

You owe it to yourself to learn to listen. 

To yourself and others. 

Find time to discover who you REALLY are.
Take time to discover OTHERS by hearing what they have to say.

and of course ALWAYS listen (and talk) to the animals.....

end rant (phew, THAT feels better out than in)

deep breath

smile, friend,

back soon

XOXOXOX

Its now or never

Well, well...... here we all are......still here. December 21st and 31st came and went and the world didnt "end" after all. Do yourself a favour and work with the end of year energy to rid yourself of unwanted and harmful energies and habits.

Most of us felt the energy shift over the last few months. Tangible, palpable energy.  The world has become an angrier place. The Sandy Hook shootings showed us all that monsters DO exist. They are everywhere. They are the unacknowledged darkness in all of us. Bad things happen to good people. The only good that came of that horrible massacre was the visible outpour of empathy for the parents who lost their baby angels.  What if we felt for EVERYONE the same way we felt for those parents and loved ones of the victims? People die in tragedy EVERYDAY, yet it goes unnoticed.

Ask yourself how YOU can make a difference in the world and begun acting like the awesome human you were meant to be. The change starts with extra smiles for everyone (yes, even if you dont get one back) and a vow to make 2013 a new start on your road to a better you.

Decide what you want and go after it. Know that you are capable of achieving any goal you put your mind to.....

Humans are hardwired to love but sadly some of us get our wires crossed or replaced as we get older. Some of us become bitter and angry towards our fellow man. Recheck, rethink and rework your hardwiring for 2013. Funnily enough, you have all the tools you need to do this. Start with finding your passion and exploring it. FIND THE TIME to nurture your own heart so you can help others do the same. Let's try to make 2013 something to be proud of. Its now or never.

Happy New Year Freaks,

Lilith loves you.......