Rant from a redhead that cant sleep

One of the toughest lessons we humans must learn
is
the difference between HINDSIGHT and FORETHOUGHT

FORETHOUGHT is imperative
and HINDSIGHT 
is
fucking
useless

hahaha

Im sure we could argue and possibly agree that hindsight can help us piece together a situation
that we did NOT have the FORETHOUGHT to see coming.

However, that still makes hindsight irrelevant to me.

(Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaait, isnt it easier to just work on the forethought?)

Life is like a chess game ,of sorts. Always thinking one step ahead is sometimes best.

Forethought includes the age old question "how will this affect everyone in a day/week/month/years to come"?

Have you seriously ever asked yourself that before making a decision 

be it tiny or HUGE....

How will this affect ME in the future?
How will this affect OTHERS I care about?

Forethought depends on focus. Focus hinges on clarity. Clarity takes self awareness.
Maybe we better start learning to be more SELF AWARE.

Let 2013 be the year you KNOW your purpose in life. Toss aside all the 20/20 hindsight scenarios and start thinking about FORETHOUGHT.
Life happens to you anyway, find a way to enjoy more of the ride.

Today the great Charlie Sheen told Dr Oz ,"People have forgotten how to listen."

I agree, it is something I must always remind myself to do.

 Listening does NOT come naturally to everybody.

You owe it to yourself to learn to listen. 

To yourself and others. 

Find time to discover who you REALLY are.
Take time to discover OTHERS by hearing what they have to say.

and of course ALWAYS listen (and talk) to the animals.....

end rant (phew, THAT feels better out than in)

deep breath

smile, friend,

back soon

XOXOXOX